“Never trouble another for what you can do for yourself.”
Do you remember the last time you were waiting on someone to do something for you? And do you remember how that turned out? Yes, I know disappointed right? And do you remember what happened the next time? Yes, they did it again. I know you were giving them another chance and trying to be a little compassionate with them. Well what I want to address with you is how long you are going to allow this cycle to continue?
Isn’t it about time for you to take some serious thought and action toward this? When people you depend on don’t have the time and can’t deliver for you it is time to Do It Yourself. You never know why is it that you go through these things. Sometimes people do it to keep you down and depending on them. So what happens is, they realized or thought that you can’t go no further without them. This is why they try to hold you hostage and at their mercy.
Welll it is time for you to break free form that bondage. I is like having to go to others to get fish when you have the option o f going to catch fish for yourself. Let me tell you it is so much better when you have your own fish. When you depend on others you can have limitations but when you can do it yourself then you make the decision in how much you want.
I am hoping you have begin to see the picture more clearly now. It much better when you have your own car, your own house your own money, can cook your own food, have your own bicycle : ), if that’s all you want.
You remember when you use to borrow your neighbor’s bicycle? And then there were days you had to pay them to get a ride. And because you were so ignorant then you just paid them because all you wanted was a ride.
My friend it is time you stop paying them and get your own. Yes you have the ability within you, yes you can do this, and yes you can get it done. So if they can why can’t you? Stop depending on them and get your own life. Life is more enjoyable on the other side.
I must warn you that there could be some negative reactions toward you when you take this kind of step. Well obviously you caught them by surprise. Simply by taking this initiative and the fact that you just might not need them anymore. For many that could be devastating because they have no one else to take advantage of. Well the choice is yours, either you stay dependant on them or make up your mind to be free and experience the best of life.
Yes, I know when you think about this deeply you may have thoughts of fear and doubt try to block your decision for the better. If people today are taking their own photos – selfie, then why can’t you do something for yourself? Let me tell you that many successful people started from little beginnings. Actually, I just read recently about 15 billionaires who started with nothing. And you mean to tell me that you are not qualified. That story alone should give you a new hope today.
So whatever you choose from this day forward is up to you, but I suggest you Do It Yourself (D.I.Y.). Let me put it like this, your family, me and God is counting on. Go ahead, I dare you to make this year different.
Please let me know your thoughts and feedback and this.
Take care until………and God Bless ya
Are you ready to face eternity? If you have not accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour of your life and desire to make that commitment now please repeat the following prayer:
Lord Jesus be merciful to me a sinner. I realize that I have sinned against you and come short of your glory. I confess that Jesus Christ is Lord and I believe in my heart that God has raised him from the dead. I pray for your forgiveness and ask that you save me now and accept me into your kingdom. Give me eternal life today.
In Jesus Name, Amen.